Imagine a toddler in Hanoi stacking wooden blocks or a preschooler in Jakarta dancing to a nursery rhyme. To an outsider, it may look like “just play.” But developmental science has long confirmed what ASEAN parents are now rediscovering: play is the foundation of learning.
Across Asia, parenting traditions have often emphasised structured learning — academic readiness, discipline, and memorisation. Yet in today’s urban centres, a shift is underway. Parents are asking: Can unstructured play help my child succeed, too?
The answer, according to global research and local practice, is a resounding yes.
👉 For ASEAN parents balancing tradition with modern parenting, this evidence reframes play: it’s not wasted time, but invested time.
Historically, ASEAN families valued storytelling, song, and intergenerational games. In rural Thailand, children learned patience through kite-flying; in Vietnam, folk songs carried cultural knowledge.
Yet rapid urbanisation shifted norms toward structured tutoring and early academics. Now, psychologists and educators across the region are echoing a global truth: play is a form of learning.
Parent voices are key: A recent study found that when parents viewed play as valuable, children showed higher social competence at preschool entry. Fung, C. K. H. (2021).
Urban parents in ASEAN often feel torn between enrolling their children in enrichment classes and providing them with downtime. Research suggests the balance matters:
A practical model: 1 hour/day of child-led free play, complemented by shorter blocks of guided play.
Here are low-cost, culturally relevant play routines for families in busy cities:
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